Today I had lunch with two sisters. One is a (my) yoga teacher, one a doctor, they were born 22 months apart. What a special honour! It reminded me that there is an energy and spirit between sisters that can’t be matched.
I ADORE my relationship with my younger sister. I love our conversation; the details of our daily lives, thoughts, emotions and relationships – often seemingly pointless to an outsider but so incredibly important to us.
I love our dynamic; no judgement whatsoever, even when one of us is acting good-crazy or bad-crazy.
I love our memories; our childhood habits & idiosyncrasies, our family holidays, our first-everythings.
I love our honesty; we’d both no doubt look and act like a hot mess without the tough love we direct at one another to course-correct bad decisions and cheer on the good ones.
I love that we share the same parents. That sounds dumb in writing, but who else can understand the intricacies of the most important relationships of our lives?
There was a study released several years ago that says sisters make you happier, more optimistic and “better at coping with life’s problems”. The theory is that the open communication sisters have is good for our emotional health.
Side note: after living with my sister for 3 months this summer I had to be careful when socialising with other people – we’d spent so much time together speaking SO openly and intimately that I became used to that level of conversation. Most inappropriate in the majority of social situations 🙂
I love you sis! There’s no one I’d rather share my chocolate cake with…